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James 4:1-10 ESV


(1) What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you? (2) You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask. (3) You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions. (4) You adulterous people! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God. (5) Or do you suppose it is to no purpose that the Scripture says, "He yearns jealously over the spirit that he has made to dwell in us"? (6) But he gives more grace. Therefore it says, "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble." (7) Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. (8) Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. (9) Be wretched and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom. (10) Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you.

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[00:00] We are in James chapter 4
[00:03] Yeah, James chapter 4 and I'm just gonna be honest right well always honest when we're speaking the word but
[00:12] The last couple of weeks right in James has been difficult I think right we talked about
[00:23] uh
[00:25] the tongue
[00:27] controlling the tongue
[00:29] Right tough one. All right, especially as we thought about like our own hopefully our own lives and how we don't
[00:35] Do very well at that
[00:38] And so we kind of got James kind of hammers people on that point right he's like man the tongue
[00:43] can't be controlled
[00:46] wicked
[00:47] Then last week Graeme and talked about earthly wisdom and heavenly wisdom with the earthly wisdom
[00:52] right brutal
[00:55] And he says to come from the devil and I thought you know
[00:58] As he was speaking last week. I was thinking man. I
[01:01] That's me in some cases right earthly wisdom
[01:04] I'm not really ever I mean, I'm not always like thinking heavenly wisdom
[01:10] And then James hammers that again right earthly wisdom and
[01:14] All right, and I love it because he James is very direct right? I mean the whole book
[01:18] Very direct. There's not a lot of like well. I wonder what he's really thinking here and you know
[01:23] I mean he says
[01:26] If you have bitter jealously, this is in chapter three verse 14 if you have bitter jealously and selfish ambition in your hearts
[01:31] Do not boast and be a fair false to the truth. This is not the wisdom that comes from above is earthly unspiritual demonic
[01:38] You know, tell me what you really think okay
[01:41] But that's us
[01:44] And so we get hammered again. We're like
[01:46] Mercy wisdom spiritual, you know, heavenly wisdom gotta have more heavenly wisdom because you know
[01:51] Don't want that want to be thinking demonic that i'm demonic and my and what i'm thinking about
[01:55] And then we come to today
[01:58] And then today he's telling us that friendship with the world is a problem
[02:04] Now it's interesting right because he's you know way back then
[02:09] For century and he's and he's you know talking to christians that are are kind of spread out spread abroad there
[02:17] And he's going listen you guys got some serious issues
[02:22] hmm
[02:24] And you would think back then right the world the things of the world wouldn't have been because it's not as much
[02:29] You know, it wasn't as open as it is today
[02:32] You know with not all the things that we have technology and all those things you wouldn't think
[02:36] That they would have a struggle being as well
[02:39] Compared to us, right?
[02:42] But obviously they did
[02:44] in a serious serious way
[02:48] And so it even though it's a separate chapter and we go to chapter four
[02:51] It's really a continuation of what ramen talked about last week what james was talking about in earthly wisdom
[02:57] Right because if we have earthly wisdom, right we can expect this
[03:03] What james is going to talk about right here and especially the first part of chapter four
[03:07] And so it's just a continuation
[03:10] And I think he's addressing
[03:16] Mostly fence sitters
[03:18] People who attempt to sit on the fence
[03:24] They don't really you know, they're christians. They you know, they would claim christ
[03:27] And their faith would claim christ
[03:30] But they kind of lean on the side of the world side right they kind of want what's what's on this side
[03:36] They want it both ways
[03:40] Right, they want to love god, but they want to love themselves and have everything that that means
[03:46] and
[03:48] The fence sitter though is going to find out after reading this
[03:52] That the fence is really shaky and broken
[03:55] It's painful and it's going to come down on one side or the other
[04:00] And if their hearts are humble if our hearts are humble we'll acknowledge that
[04:09] And we'll acknowledge that god already knows our hearts
[04:15] And you know and we'll acknowledge what's that he knows what's best for us and in humility go to him
[04:21] Say lord, I have sat on the fence
[04:24] Wanting what the world offers but also trying to please you and those two things are not compatible
[04:32] But the heart is not humble
[04:36] And the heart fails to accept what god
[04:39] Our savior and his sovereignty is doing in our lives
[04:44] right
[04:46] The pursuit of pleasure the pursuit of profit right all those things that we want
[04:50] Individuals discover we will discover that our lasting joy is not to be found
[04:57] It's out of reach
[05:03] And so as we read this
[05:07] Chapter just as we've done last pretty much since the beginning of james, but I keep reminding you
[05:13] At least the last few weeks is that we we really don't think about
[05:16] Our neighbor and what or our you know spouse or our kids or we think about god
[05:22] What are you trying to tell me here in this passage?
[05:24] And so we have your bibles open chapter four
[05:31] And i'm gonna again i'll just kind of read the whole thing
[05:35] And then uh at the end or um as we go i'll go through the verses again
[05:40] I just want to read it kind of quickly and then we'll go from there verse one through ten. It says this
[05:45] What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you?
[05:49] Is it not this that your passions are at war within you?
[05:54] Your desire and do not have so you murder you covet and cannot obtain so you fight and quarrel
[06:01] You do not have because you do not ask you ask and do not receive because you ask wrongly to spend it on your passions
[06:08] You adulterous people
[06:10] Do not know that friendship with the world
[06:13] Is enmity with christ or with god?
[06:16] Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of god
[06:20] Or do you suppose it is to no purpose that the scripture says he yearns jealousy over the spirit that he's made to dwell in us
[06:28] But he gives more grace
[06:31] Therefore it says god opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble
[06:35] Submit yourselves therefore to god resist the devil and he will flee from you
[06:39] Draw near to god and he will draw near to you cleanse your hands you sinners and purify your heart you double-minded
[06:44] Be wretched and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom
[06:50] Humble yourselves before the lord and he will exalt you
[06:54] Let's pray father just quick prayer just to say teach us what we do not know convict our hearts today lord
[07:04] And at the end and as we walk out these doors and we go into the world
[07:08] Father may we love you more may we want to serve you more may we want to obey you more
[07:13] Maybe we want to become more like jesus in your name. We pray. Amen
[07:16] All right
[07:20] So right off the bat
[07:24] We see that friendship with the world comes from sinful desires of the heart
[07:30] Selfish gain
[07:33] Pleasures in this world what is best for me, right?
[07:36] These things in the first couple of verses we see what causes quarrels and what causes fights among you
[07:42] That your passions are at war within you your passions, right being these sinful desires
[07:48] right
[07:50] At war against what christ and god at once for our lives
[07:54] Um
[07:58] He uses some really strong language doesn't he
[08:02] I mean
[08:03] He says what causes quarrels and fights that your passions are at war within you you're like, okay
[08:08] That's where this is kind of going then all of a sudden he says you desire and do not have so you murder
[08:11] Now i'm gonna i'm gonna say i'm gonna go on a limb here and say that the christians
[08:15] Right that he's speaking to are committing, you know first degree murder
[08:19] You know, that's like the second third, you know, but they're not committing murder
[08:24] And they're not going out and killing people
[08:29] What he's saying here is basically what god said what jesus said. I mean on sermon on amount when he talked about hating your brother
[08:35] right
[08:36] What first john says?
[08:38] about um
[08:40] Hating your brother that's the same as murder
[08:43] Right and the sin and the war within us to have what we want
[08:48] What we feel we need what we feel we are justified to have
[08:53] Right causes quarrels which makes sense, right? But we don't get what we want
[08:59] Right takes us off
[09:01] our spouse
[09:03] Doesn't give us what we want in some way
[09:05] right
[09:07] We're not happy
[09:09] All right, we let him we let him know
[09:11] Through various means if friends say something to us
[09:16] We don't like we let them know if people in the church say something we don't like or we don't disagree or we disagree with
[09:22] We're gonna let them know in various ways
[09:26] and
[09:28] So he says you desire and do not have so you murder
[09:31] Right this whole idea. I want what I want and when I don't get now
[09:36] I have a problem with you and now I have a problem with my brother or sister in christ and god says that's serious
[09:42] Says you covet and cannot obtain so I see maybe what others have I see what the world is offering and I want
[09:55] But maybe I don't have the finances. Maybe I don't have the wherewithal. Maybe my wife is holding me back
[09:59] Maybe my husband is holding back. Whatever. I can't get what I want
[10:02] So I fight and quarrel and quarrel with my friends fighting quarrel with my wife, whatever's holding me back it causes
[10:10] this quarrelsome spirit
[10:13] Because I have to have what I want and sometimes it's not a material thing
[10:20] Right. Sometimes it's recognition. I want recognition right? I don't like it
[10:25] I don't think that this person is honoring me the way they should honor me. And so now we're gonna quarrel
[10:31] He goes on to say you do not have because you do not ask
[10:38] Okay, you get that sometimes we we don't have because we don't ask but then he says
[10:47] You do not have because you do not ask you ask and do not receive
[10:50] Because you ask wrongly and to spend it on your passions
[10:55] Spend it on your passions
[10:59] James saying you don't go to god in prayer and if you do
[11:04] You are going to him in order to gain more of this world for yourself
[11:10] So you don't have
[11:12] You don't ask but when you do ask you don't get because you're going to him to get more of the world instead of more of him
[11:18] Right instead of praying right to god your name be honored as holy and your will be done
[11:25] We're saying honor me god, right and may my will be done
[11:32] And god says
[11:38] When our lives become about us, right?
[11:41] We realize that all the hostility we have towards one another is really evidence of hostility towards god
[11:48] Right when our lives become all about us any hostility that we have towards people especially within the church
[11:55] Especially maybe not our church, but just christian brothers and sisters in general
[11:59] We realize that it's hostility towards god
[12:07] Which brings us to this almost shocking statement in verse four
[12:10] Right. I mean, I guess calling everybody a murderer is a shocking statement
[12:14] All right
[12:15] But look what he says in verse four you adulterous people are right
[12:20] And some other versions I think are adulteresses adulterous
[12:24] Yeah adulterous you adulterous people
[12:32] Now is he saying once again that all the people that he's speaking to all these christian brothers and sisters because he calls him brothers, right?
[12:39] Over and over in james one chapter one chapter two chapter three. He calls him brothers
[12:43] Now he cares for them. He loves him
[12:46] And now he says you adulterous people are all his brothers and sisters in christ committing adultery with their spouses against their spouses
[12:53] No, right
[12:55] No
[12:57] Dames is not
[12:59] Saying that
[13:02] He's talking about spiritual unfaithfulness
[13:06] He's talking about spiritual unfaithfulness remember we as christians are the bride of christ
[13:16] Ephesians talks about that
[13:20] You and I are the bride of christ
[13:23] And when we say what the world and what it has to offer is more important to me
[13:29] Right. We are cheating on christ
[13:31] We are committing adultery against christ. That's the bible wants you to know the seriousness of it
[13:36] Jeremiah 3 20 says this
[13:39] But like a woman unfaithful to her husband, so you israel have been unfaithful to me declares the lord
[13:44] See how god is using the terminology that we know this terminology that you know, um
[13:53] Causes pain and heartache
[13:58] And
[13:59] He's saying you are adulterous
[14:01] For those of you have turned your back on god and onto the web instead said hey, I want what the world has to offer
[14:08] The more we are conformed to this world
[14:13] The more we betray our god and our savior
[14:15] Right the more we cheat on him
[14:18] Remember thinking of it that way
[14:21] Then we ever think
[14:23] That we are committing adultery
[14:26] Against our savior, right
[14:28] I think of it kind of like you know in a regular marriage, right?
[14:38] Then we can even go back to the first couple verses
[14:42] A wife might think that she wants more things her husband has a job. Maybe she doesn't think his job is
[14:50] You know worthwhile doesn't bring in enough money. There's more stuff. I want to do
[14:55] More stuff I need
[14:56] And so she says I pray i'm gonna pray i'm gonna pray gets a new job. What's she pray? What's he praying?
[15:00] She's praying for she's praying for herself
[15:02] Right because she wants more things or whatever, you know, whatever the thing might be. I want a nicer house
[15:09] I want a bigger house. I want a nicer car
[15:11] Then she's god doesn't answer my prayers
[15:14] Because you're asking for what the world offers you're not asking for more of christ, right
[15:25] a
[15:27] Husband
[15:29] When he
[15:34] Thinks he is owed something when he thinks it's all about me
[15:38] And what I want and where I want to go and what I want to do pretty soon his wife starts to dim
[15:44] in his eyes
[15:46] Right, it's not all that right. I could do better
[15:50] This is all about me
[15:53] All right
[15:55] And so when he speaks I think there's two things going on here when he speaks of adultery
[16:00] He's he wants you to get the picture of what adultery is and the pain and everything that goes with that
[16:05] Right, we know and he's saying hey, you know uses the word. So you're almost shocked into saying wait, am I selfish am I?
[16:12] Self-centered am I about the world?
[16:15] I also want you to know right that there's a danger in your marriage, but there's also a danger
[16:20] Right on cheating with god like it's like a two-fold thing going on
[16:23] And obviously if you're not married then it would just be the you know, basically your relationship with god
[16:31] But the imagery that james is giving here is unmistakable
[16:38] He uses the word adulterous right to describe these fence sitters
[16:44] Because he wants them to understand
[16:48] Really the pain and the suffering that comes with it
[16:51] We've done all sorts of things
[16:58] Maybe we have maybe it's just the church in general until sometimes
[17:02] They constitute cheating on our god and savior
[17:05] Right, we pursue the world's praise and popularity. We pursue the world's idea of what is you know, how you've made it
[17:13] So maybe it's a bigger house bigger car. Maybe it's more toys bigger toys
[17:18] But it's my desires. I have to meet them. Why because I am sitting on the side of the fence that is of the world
[17:24] So you come here today and you realize that's about you you look at yourself
[17:30] Everything I do is pretty much about me god has this warning for you
[17:44] Keeps going he says your adulterous people do not know that friendship with the world is enemy enmity with god, which right there, right?
[17:51] I mean you probably just say that state that statement and drop the mic and walk out
[17:56] Okay
[17:58] Doesn't get much easier than that as far as understanding
[18:01] Oh you want everything the world has to offer?
[18:04] Okay, but no
[18:06] All right
[18:07] That makes you an enemy of god you understand like the seriousness that james is trying to tell you like this is serious
[18:12] The world's pull is hard. It is right. We all do it
[18:17] We all want things of the world
[18:19] We all want it. Sometimes we we fall in love with the things of the world and
[18:24] James is saying listen
[18:26] friendship with the world
[18:28] Means or thing you are an enemy of god
[18:31] You cannot be both you cannot be friends with the world and love god
[18:36] He says it makes this interesting statement or do you suppose it is
[18:42] To no purpose that the scripture says he yearns jealousy over the spirit that has he has made to dwell in us
[18:49] And I would just you know, there's there's a lot of theologians. I think differently about that verse
[18:54] But I I think if you go back to exodus
[18:56] Right, um jeez god himself calls himself a jealous god
[19:01] right
[19:04] Exodus chapter 20 and exodus 30 chapter 34. He tells the people who I am a jealous god
[19:11] And I I read this example kind of what that means, right?
[19:14] Because when we think jealousy we kind of sometimes think of high school dating jealousy, right?
[19:18] You know your dating the girl in high school and she's talking to some guy
[19:22] Talking that guy
[19:24] Yeah, a lot been looking at you. All right more popular better athlete, right?
[19:30] Stupid that's not what god is
[19:34] But this guy gave a great a great example and he said this as a husband
[19:38] I am jealous for the affections of my wife
[19:40] And anyone or anything that threatens to steal her love from me is met with the strongest of opposition
[19:48] As it should be
[19:53] As a husband
[19:55] I'm jealous for the affections of my wife and anyone or anything that threatens to steal her love from me is met with the strongest opposition
[20:01] And in our relationship with god, he is jealous for our affections
[20:08] He is jealous for his people
[20:10] Right a godly jealousy that seeks what is best for us by guarding our hearts from adulterous pursuits
[20:18] You get that
[20:21] He is jealous for our affections
[20:28] in that wild
[20:31] the god of all creation
[20:33] The god of all power
[20:35] by the god of the universe
[20:37] Is jealous for our affections he wants our hearts to be fully turned to him
[20:44] And he says I want to guard your hearts against this worldly pursuit
[20:55] right
[20:57] This these adulterous pursuits. I want I want to guard your heart
[21:02] And you get to you get to the end of of that. Uh
[21:05] of verse five
[21:08] And you're like, all right, I'm a murderer i'm an adult all right
[21:12] I'm like what else? All right. I got I got
[21:16] earthly wisdom
[21:18] Right. I know. I love the earth. You know, I love the worldly thing sometimes
[21:22] like
[21:24] All right
[21:25] I guess i'm the worst
[21:27] You just feel almost like heavy
[21:31] All right as i'm reading over and i'm I feel happy like, you know, I went back to chapter three and read the whole chapter
[21:36] I get to chapter four and i'm like, oh
[21:38] James give us some slack. All right
[21:40] Give me you know, give me some good news anybody does
[21:43] right
[21:46] Look what he says in verse six
[21:49] but
[21:52] he
[21:53] gives
[21:54] more
[21:55] grace
[21:57] Did you get that
[22:00] But he gives more grace
[22:04] Hmm yeah
[22:09] Right kind of smack dab in the middle, but he gives
[22:14] More grace
[22:18] The wonderful and amazing grace of god
[22:20] Is here for you and for me today
[22:24] We'll be there for you and me tomorrow. We'll there be there for you and me for as long
[22:30] As we are on this earth
[22:33] There's a quote by alec moiter
[22:38] Moiter who says this what comfort there is in this verse
[22:43] It tells us that god is tirelessly on our side
[22:48] He never falters in respect of our needs. He always has more grace at hand for us
[22:53] He never is less
[22:55] Than sufficient he always has more and yet more to give whatever we may forfeit when we put self first
[23:03] We cannot forfeit our salvation for there's always more grace. No matter what we do to him
[23:07] He has never beaten his resources are never at end. His patience is never exhausted
[23:12] His initiative never stops his generosity knows no limits. He gives more grace
[23:23] Hmm
[23:25] I love that man
[23:27] Because I am a great sinner
[23:29] Right to think that this verse is put right there
[23:34] For me and for you
[23:39] Because we all fail at this
[23:41] There's always worldly pursuits that we're after in some way or another
[23:45] He says
[23:50] But he gives more grace therefore it says god opposes
[23:53] The proud but gives grace
[23:56] to the humble
[23:59] Then he says oh humble, okay. Well here's how that looks submit yourselves to god
[24:06] Right next verse verse seven submit yourselves therefore to god
[24:11] And he's going to tell you how to do this
[24:14] He's going to give you a bunch of steps
[24:16] And how to submit yourselves to god because we hear that all the time right submit yourselves to god and sometimes
[24:20] I don't I guess I read more. I don't you know, what does that mean?
[24:25] You know want to submit myself to god do what he says, but we can do what he says and not have a good heart about it
[24:31] right
[24:33] Submit yourselves to god and so he says this resist it and we're going to get into these more
[24:39] But I want to read them all out submit yourselves. Therefore to god. He says this resist the devil
[24:44] And he will flee from you
[24:46] Draw near to god and he will draw near to you
[24:48] Cleanse your hands you sinner and purify your hearts. You double-minded be wretched and mourn and weep
[24:55] Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom
[24:59] Humble yourselves before the lord and he will exalt you now
[25:03] This part of the chapter
[25:06] Is supposed to be more uplifting
[25:08] When you read that you're like, uh
[25:12] Lend your hands you sinners purify our hearts you double-minded people
[25:16] Be wretched and mourn and weep. Okay, so it's fun. Let your laughter be turned to mourning
[25:23] That's definitely not fun. Right and your joy to gloom
[25:26] so I just want to go through these because
[25:29] I think they're really good, right?
[25:32] I think they're really good
[25:34] Um, and maybe just with a little explanation because I even even one of them
[25:37] Um, you know draw near to god
[25:41] I use that verse a lot
[25:43] and
[25:45] I've often thought when I was reading this passage. I don't know why I just started thinking
[25:48] It doesn't mean you're drawing near to god, right? Like a lot of those things. What's easy roll off coming from here to go
[25:54] Anyway, so it was a little deeper that I think it does
[25:59] So, you know, you do a little research try to find out what's going on with that and I think I like
[26:04] Where I landed on it, um based on some other people
[26:08] um
[26:10] But we'll get to that. I don't know, but maybe maybe you think it's easy. Maybe some of this stuff is easy easy for you
[26:15] Um, all these things are difficult
[26:17] Right, and so all these commands are to give a help us with submission
[26:21] to god
[26:24] You want to grow in intimacy with god you want to you want a strong friendship with god instead of the world?
[26:30] an intimate friendship
[26:33] Number one resist the devil forcefully
[26:38] Think about satan and since the very beginning and I think ramen touched on this last week, right?
[26:43] Humans have been trusting him and distrusting god since then
[26:51] Yeah, so god says resist resist resist
[26:58] Oh, you're on your computer late at night
[27:02] Everybody's in bed
[27:04] You can look at whatever you want resist resist resist think satan think curb stop
[27:10] right
[27:13] Like just like i'm not doing right
[27:16] I'm not
[27:18] lord
[27:20] When you're tempted to put your needs ahead of your families ahead of your own spouses ahead of your kids
[27:27] ahead of your friends
[27:29] resist resist resist
[27:31] resist
[27:33] Resist the devil satan forcibly
[27:39] Like take it serious
[27:44] Right. I think it was
[27:46] I think it was charles bergen. I don't know said how valuable must your soul be that both satan and god are after it
[27:53] right
[27:55] Oh satan wants you to crumble
[27:57] resist resist resist
[28:01] resist
[28:03] Verse 8 it says this draw near to god and he will draw near to you
[28:08] I put and this isn't from me. This is just studying. I did it says seek god
[28:16] repentantly
[28:18] Right this implies this this draw near to god that you have been away drew away from god
[28:25] Right. So you are away from him not doing what you should be doing knowing the things that you've done
[28:31] To kind of turn your back on god and it says turn around and draw near to god and how by
[28:36] Repentant by being having a repentant heart
[28:39] towards god
[28:42] Oh lord, I have sinned against you and you alone
[28:46] And if you're taking notes write psalm 51
[28:50] psalm 51
[28:54] You want to know how to draw near to god
[28:56] David gives us a great example
[28:59] Here's a king who commits adultery
[29:01] a king
[29:03] To do what he wants
[29:05] And his sin is called out in front of him by the prophet nathan
[29:08] And then he goes at some point and writes psalm 51
[29:13] And i'm not going to read it yet because it also goes with our next one
[29:17] But I want you to be thinking and I would encourage you
[29:21] If you want friendship with god
[29:24] read psalm 51
[29:28] It teaches us about having how to have a heart a genuine heart of repentance
[29:34] Over and over again because you think david didn't sin again, right?
[29:41] Psalm 51 will teach you will teach me how to draw near
[29:47] The rest of verse 8 says
[29:55] Cleanse your hands you sinners and purify your heart to double-minded. It's an interesting statement
[30:00] This is just to pursue
[30:04] purity
[30:06] Right the whole core of who we are is pure before god
[30:10] Your heart your mind your desires your motives
[30:17] Because let's face it right we all do things
[30:22] We all have motives to do things and sometimes we'll still do the right thing
[30:25] But the motive behind it is wrong
[30:29] Right this idea
[30:32] of
[30:34] Cleansing your hands you sinners and purifying your hearts. It's both what you do and internal
[30:39] Right. It's internal and external
[30:41] Because we can have an external, you know, and most people look at us. Oh, we do a lot of good things
[30:46] But is it internal is your heart pure?
[30:49] So
[30:51] He then says
[30:59] verse 9 which is very hard
[31:01] Be wretched and mourn and weep
[31:04] Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy
[31:08] to gloom
[31:11] All right, that's it everybody go home and let your joy be turned to gloom you're happy you're happy your happiness your your joy everything you have
[31:19] Just go home be sad all the time
[31:21] That's not what he means
[31:24] what he means
[31:26] right
[31:27] Is that take your sin very seriously?
[31:30] Take your sin very seriously
[31:34] Bottom line is that those who have friendship with the world
[31:43] Do not see sin as a big deal
[31:47] But
[31:49] Sin is a huge it is a major deal
[31:52] We should grieve over it
[31:55] James basically says right there should be tears. We should weep over our sin
[32:00] Right if we just got done with easter not too long ago and we talked about
[32:06] You know on good friday what jesus took on the cross?
[32:14] And when we sin it's like saying I don't care
[32:17] Right. I don't care
[32:20] And so shouldn't that bring us to like some sorrow
[32:25] Martin lord joey martin loyd jones says this about revivals
[32:34] A revival is when a large
[32:38] I can get into it too much a large group of people, you know turn from you know, repent and and
[32:44] Put their faith in christ and you know or come back to christ
[32:47] right
[32:49] You can have a revival of heart. There's gonna be one person but usually when you speak of revivals, it's a it's a large mass of people
[32:54] He says go and read the history of revivals again
[32:59] Watch the individ watch the individuals at the beginning
[33:02] This is invariable the first thing that happens to them
[33:05] They begin to see what a terrible appalling thing sin is in the sight of god
[33:11] They temporarily even forget the state of the church and forget their own anguish
[33:14] It is the thought of sin in the sight of god and how terrible it must be
[33:18] Never has there been a revival but that some of the people especially at the beginning
[33:23] Have had such visions through scripture of the holiness of god and the sinfulness of sin that they have scarcely known what to do with themselves
[33:31] When was the last time you grieved over your sin
[33:40] Before god
[33:42] Right and
[33:45] We all sin every day
[33:48] Be a thought deed
[33:51] right
[33:52] When was the last time it actually grieved your heart?
[33:55] So much so that you just sort of like
[33:58] God I don't
[34:01] I don't want to hurt. I don't want to do that. I don't want
[34:03] Sin against you a holy and loving god
[34:08] I
[34:10] Think in today's world we don't really talk about
[34:15] Truly the evilness of sin, but they'll make us feel good, right?
[34:19] Doesn't lift us up
[34:21] for sure
[34:23] That's why I love how he wraps up chapter this chapter chapter four he doesn't wrap up chapter this section verse 10
[34:34] The verse he says be wretched and mourn and weep let your laughter be turned to morning and your joy to gloom, right?
[34:40] Listen, take your sin serious so serious that that is what you would almost feel like
[34:45] Right just like lord and then there's this joy to knowing that he has taken your sin
[34:53] And so there's sadness and joy and then he says this in verse 10 have humble yourselves before the lord and he
[35:00] Will exalt you
[35:04] Oh
[35:06] He thought it was down
[35:08] We're gonna feel down or feel terrible and he says no listen
[35:12] If you humble yourself before the lord
[35:15] He will exalt you
[35:18] Right when we humble ourselves before our king
[35:22] We don't have to worry about trying to lift ourselves up trying to make ourselves feel better
[35:26] God does it for us
[35:33] But when you say I am a friend of the world by your actions
[35:37] By your thoughts by your heart
[35:40] Right
[35:42] There's not a lot of lifting up going on. Oh you feel good in the moment
[35:46] But long term
[35:55] Joy
[36:00] Is gone
[36:03] I
[36:05] Think when we think about friendship of god
[36:09] Right, it's obviously comes from the gracious desire of god, right? He he helps us with that
[36:17] But also there's a longing in our heart for eternal
[36:21] Satisfaction right we want to be satisfied long term
[36:30] And that eternal satisfaction and that that phrase got me to think about a movie that I one of my favorite movies
[36:35] You guys most of you have seen gladiator
[36:38] hopefully
[36:40] the general maximus decimus
[36:42] Meredith
[36:46] He is the general in charge of the roman army in some section and he's about to face battle
[36:53] Uh, and he has his men and he and he says this dude, I just want to read this little thing
[37:00] And he says brothers
[37:02] Three weeks from now. I will be harvesting my crops
[37:04] Imagine where you will be and it will be so hold the line
[37:09] Stay with me
[37:11] If you find yourself alone
[37:13] Riding in green fields with the sun on your face. Do not be troubled
[37:17] For you are in elisium, which is what he would consider heaven and you're already dead
[37:22] He says brothers
[37:27] I want you to get this what we do in life echoes into eternity
[37:33] Now I remember hearing that for the first time watching that movie and I was like man
[37:38] This guy is cold
[37:41] And what we do in life echoes into eternity and so when I say
[37:48] right
[37:50] That we should have a longing for eternal satisfaction
[37:54] Right what we do what james is saying what we do now whether friendship with the world or friendship with god, right?
[38:01] echoes into eternity
[38:04] If we have no thought of eternity, right we live for the here and now
[38:08] We only care about what I can have today
[38:12] And if we continue to be friends with the world and enjoy the worldly passions and live in worldly wisdom
[38:19] we can
[38:21] Expect the opposition opposition of god in eternity because that says something about us, right?
[38:27] If we don't care ever about eternity if we don't care about what god has said and we said nope
[38:33] I want what I want now. I will get what I want to get
[38:37] That we can expect
[38:42] Right that when we say it echoes into eternity it echoes into eternity this way
[38:45] Right that we have opposition from god
[38:48] What
[38:50] Friendship with god though
[38:56] True friendship with god results in the submission to that authority of god
[39:01] and when we think of echoing into eternity we think of
[39:05] Standing before our savior and he says well done
[39:08] My good and faithful servant
[39:11] Can you imagine that
[39:18] Can you imagine at the end of all things standing before you're saved
[39:23] And he says well done my good and faithful servant
[39:29] I said that our posture should be psalm 51
[39:35] And so I just want to read that as we close
[39:39] And then we'll wrap up on a song
[39:45] It just says remember this is david, right
[39:48] The prophet nathan has called out his sin
[39:52] His adultery he tried to hide it
[39:55] basically
[39:56] Killed a woman's husband had her killed had him killed so that they would you know, he wouldn't find out
[40:00] Thought he had it covered up. Nobody would know
[40:03] God knew
[40:05] And brought it to david and this is david's response
[40:09] Have mercy on me
[40:12] Oh god
[40:14] According to your steadfast love according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions
[40:19] Wash me thoroughly from iniquity and cleanse me from my sin
[40:23] For I know my transgressions and my sin is ever before me against you
[40:28] You only have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight
[40:32] So that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment
[40:36] Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity and in sin. Did my mother conceive me?
[40:40] Behold you delight in truth in the un inward being and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart
[40:46] Purge me with high self
[40:49] And I shall be clean wash me and I shall be whiter than snow
[40:52] Let me hear joy and gladness. Let the bones that you have broken rejoice
[40:57] Hide your face from my sins blot out all my iniquities create in me a clean heart. Oh god
[41:04] And renew a right spirit within me
[41:08] Cast me not away from your presence and take not your holy spirit from me restore to me the joy of your salvation
[41:15] Salvation and uphold me with a willing spirit
[41:17] Then I will teach transgressors your ways and sinners will return to you deliver me
[41:23] From blood guiltlessness. Oh god, oh god of my salvation and my tongue will sing aloud of your righteousness
[41:30] Oh lord, open my lips and my mouth will declare your praise for you will not delight in sacrifice
[41:38] Or I would give it you will not be pleased with a burnt offering the sacrifices of god
[41:42] Are a broken spirit a broken and contrite heart. Oh god, you will not
[41:47] despise
[41:50] Have you ever cried out your sin like that
[41:53] Listen
[41:58] There's only two choices, right
[42:04] I would just encourage you to be your offense sitter
[42:07] And you're like man. I love the things of this world
[42:10] I'm going to do what I want to do when I want to do it how I want to do it
[42:13] I'm going to get me mine and I don't care who I have to burn down to do it
[42:16] Right you've kind of chosen a side of that fence
[42:21] All right, that's friendship with the world and you're taking all that the world has to offer
[42:30] But today I ask you right will you consider friendship with god
[42:35] In faithful submission to him and his word
[42:38] We went over a bunch of things but I really want to just kind of drill home this
[42:46] Sorrow over sin
[42:51] If we can become a people and a church
[42:56] That weeps that has true sorrow over our sin
[42:59] right
[43:02] God will do great things as it says humbly spells right and he will lift you up
[43:07] You have sorrow over your sin
[43:11] Encourage you this week to just read
[43:16] Every day just once a day read song 51
[43:19] Make it your prayer
[43:23] Say god convict me in the areas where I am being friends with the world by my attitude and my deeds
[43:28] Lord convict me and then cleanse me. Oh lord
[43:32] For I do not want any wicked way to be in me
[43:37] Will that be your prayer this week? Let's pray and then we'll sing father
[43:44] The hard-hitting passage
[43:51] These last few weeks have been difficult
[43:53] But we read that there is more grace for us
[44:00] Oh, we praise you god for your grace and your mercy
[44:07] We do not understand I can't even
[44:17] Truly wrap our minds around it but oh lord, we are truly thankful
[44:22] For we know that often we choose the side of the fence
[44:27] The world offers
[44:31] We believe the lives of satan
[44:35] And doing so we quarrel with one another
[44:39] And commit great sin against you oh god
[44:45] Father I just pray that we that me
[44:47] That we at the church
[44:50] That we would seek and desire friendship with you god
[44:54] And we would submit ourselves to your authority to your word to your desire to your ways
[45:02] And we'd seek
[45:06] Heavenly wisdom in our lives that we would seek friendship with you lord
[45:12] Lord
[45:14] For you are good
[45:18] We love you or we love you and we
[45:24] Do not want to leave this place unchanged
[45:28] Father convict our hearts this week
[45:31] today
[45:33] tomorrow
[45:34] and moving forward
[45:36] May we resist
[45:41] With all that we have
[45:43] The pull of satan to this world
[45:46] We pray these things in your son's precious precious name. Jesus